Bullying often reflects underlying issues, and it’s important to recognize that individuals who bully may be experiencing challenges themselves. This is why it’s essential to report bullying—not just to protect those being targeted but to break the cycle of harm. It’s also important to avoid labeling children as “bullies” or “victims” for a few reasons. These labels can suggest that a child’s behavior is unchangeable. They also fail to recognize that children might play different roles in different situations, and they overlook other contributing factors such as peer pressure or the overall school environment.

If you or your child is being bullied in school, it’s a good idea to speak with a trusted teacher, school counselor, or principal about your concerns. You can also submit an anonymous report using the Safe Schools Alert system here.

In the workplace, Tulalip has a strict zero-tolerance policy for bullying. You can refer to the Tulalip Tribal Government Employee Handbook for more details, which you can find here.

If your child is being bullied online, encourage them to ask for help and stay calm. It’s important not to react impulsively or retaliate. Instead, work with your child to block the harasser’s accounts and carefully consider any responses. Involve your child in the process to ensure they feel supported and empowered. For additional resources on handling cyberbullying, you can refer to this guide.

Addressing bullying requires everyone’s involvement, whether in school, at work, or online. Taking steps to stand up against bullying is essential for fostering a supportive and safe environment for all.